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Erotic Massage Primer

Posted by Soiar on 2/21/2015

So you want to give your partner an erotic massage? Great, there are few activities that can help two people feel any closer. However, giving a massage, erotic or not, can be a daunting task if you are not sure how to go about it. Thankfully, with a bit of guidance, practice, and patience you can become your partnerís sensual massage master in very little time.  

Sensual Massage Guidelines


When you give the erotic massage is very important. You need to give it when you both have the time to forget the world and so that you can experience the now. To this end, you ought to turn off your phones and all other possible distractions.

Also, respect the experience by not rushing the massage. Start on the back, legs, neck, and other non-erotic areas before moving on to the genitals, nipples, and other more erotic spots.


There are a great number of tools you should consider when it comes time to giving your lover an erotic massage.

Massage oils are a great tool for most of oneís body. These can be scented to really help create the right mood. Stimulating gels and oils on the other hand are specifically made to stimulate oneís genitals by creating a sensation of warmth. When using these, start with a little and increase the amount as needed. Remember that oil-based gels and oil are not safe to use with latex.

Ears are the most important tool you need to access while massaging your partner. Listen to learn what your partner likes and dislikes.  

Vibrators and massage wands are wonderful erotic massage tools. Vibrators are great for stimulating the clitoris, the area in and around the vagina, and a manís prostate. Massage wands can be used anywhere on the body to include the genitals.   

Clean sheets and towels are important massage tools. Do not forget them. Also, candles, flowers, and soft romantic music can all go a long ways towards creating the perfect sensual massage environment.   

Temperature Matters

As you massage your partner, you want to get his or her blood flowing which means that your room and massage bed or table cannot be too cold. Make sure your partner is warm enough to fully enjoy the erotic massage.

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