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Erotic Massage Primer

Posted by Soiar on 2/21/2015
Giving your partner a sensual massage is a wonderful way for the two of you to grow even closer. And, thankfully giving an erotic massage need not be difficult as long as you follow a few guidelines and take the time to learn what makes your partner ooh and aah. 

7 Ways to Talk with your Partner about Getting Kinky

Posted by Soiar on 2/17/2015
1. Figure out what your kinks even are. Understanding not just what turns you on, but how and why it turns you on, can get your partner excited about trying something they're not used to. Plus you're going to need to be able to explain that stuff to your partner when you're blindfolded with your hands tied to the headboard. You can even write up a script to practice. "Any good sex life involves communication between the partners in terms of how one thinks about it and how they actually enjoy it," says sex therapist Dr. A. Picker.

Masturbating Toys for Women- Masturbation Made Hotter

Posted by Soiar on 2/7/2015
Traditionally discussed in hushed tones and often performed by males, masturbation is now considered an ‘open topic’ for modern women. In fact, according to a commissioned study of Kinsey Institute, there’s a growing interest among American women aged 18 to 49 in masturbation. The statistic is striking since the study suggests that the act is popular in both single and married women. This only underlines the fact that masturbation is no longer a stigma as perceived in the past, and more women are more than willing to include masturbation into their lifestyle.

Beginner’s Guide to Anal Sex

Posted by Soiar on 1/24/2015
Although many folks are scared of even talking about anal sex, the truth is that anal sex can be a very enjoyable activity. If you are interested in exploring the thrills of going anal, make sure you know how to do so in a way that is safe, clean, and free from pain. 

Bondage Tips for Beginners

Posted by Soiar on 1/15/2015
If the word ‘bondage’ fills your mind’s eye with shocking images of leather masks, uncomfortable looking spikes and being locked away in a dark cellar somewhere in central Europe, you, along with almost everybody in Hollywood it seems, have probably slightly misunderstood what bondage actually is.

Sex Toy Materials

Posted by Soiar on 1/9/2015
Making a choice among the many sex toys on offer today has more than one component to it. You need to choose the type of toy, depending on how it’s used and what it’s used for. You need to choose the size, depending on, again, what do you want it for and your personal preferences. Price and brand should be considered as well. But you should never, ever, leave the material out of the equation. It’s important, for safety reasons. And there are two ways the materials used for making sex toys influence safety: by their porousness and chemical composition.

Everything You Need to Know About Male Condoms

Posted by Soiar on 1/9/2015
As far as contraceptives go, there’s not a better known and more widely used one than the male condom. The proverbial rubber is often the only thing that stands between people and unwanted pregnancy, as well as nasty infections and diseases. People love condoms because, even though they are generally perceived as something that diminishes the feeling of sex, they are very effective in what they do, and they are very available and inexpensive.

Tantric Sex and The Kama Sutra: How to Truly Enhance Your Sexual Experience

Posted by Soiar on 1/8/2015
The Kama Sutra is an ancient Hindu tome largely believed (especially by Westerners) to be a manual for ways to have great sex. While going hand-in-hand with Tantric Sex, Your once mind-blowing orgasms will seem like nothing compared to what Tantra can help you and your partner achieve together.

Taking Care of Sex Toys

Posted by Soiar on 1/6/2015
Sex toys are great fun. They are portable, they are convenient, and some of them can do things a living, breathing partner could never do. Sex toys are awesome. And for them to stay that way, you’ll need to know how to take care of them. Depending on the material they are made from, they might require special storage considerations, as well as special cleaning considerations.

10 Best Herbal Supplements for Great Sex

Posted by Soiar on 1/3/2015
The fast-paced lives we lead today and the stress levels we take on can often spell trouble in the bedroom. We are talking about waning sexual desire or low libidos, a fairly common problem nowadays. If your libido has been missing in action lately, help is at hand in the form of supplements to get you back on track.

3 Fun Tricks to Ramp Up Your Sexual Drive

Posted by Soiar on 12/17/2014

You've set up the time, took a shower and put on a sexy beat, but all these are often not enough to stimulate sexual drive and mood. It happens, and often getting into the mood can be difficult and spoils the fun that comes with a sexual romp of couples. The reasons are varied- women often balance their time for family and work, and men are too pre-occupied with social and office requirements. A diminishing libido and loss of appetite for sex can be frustrating, but you can take appropriate actions to reverse the decline in sexual drive.

Getting Your Conservative Husband to Let it Loose in the Bedroom, Kitchen, Floor, Stairway

Posted by Soiar on 11/29/2014
By loving and communicating with your man outside the bedroom you can improve the communication, loving, and sex within the bedroom. If your man or husband is too conservative when it comes to sex, simply follow these basic guidelines to make him wild. 

Flying High on a Sex Swing

Posted by Soiar on 11/24/2014
We all want to add a little bit of adventure to our sex lives, but sometimes it can be hard - all puns intended - to find a specific area of kink or deviation from the norm that you and your partner are both interested in. Role play? Sure, that's OK for a little bit of fantasy fulfillment, but if you really want to try something different in your sex lives that can not only add a little zing, but some extra pleasure during intercourse, you don't need to look any further than purchasing a good sex swing.

Extending Your Erection

Posted by Soiar on 11/24/2014
If you ask most men, and they are forced to give you an honest answer, one of the most sought-after sexual secrets is learning how to prolong your erection and delay ejaculation. For some guys, the reason is sexually altruistic; they want to please their partner, and maintaining their erection allows them to make love longer and provide more opportunity for their lover to reach orgasm. For others, it is simply so they can last longer and extend the time that they are feeling the pleasure of sex. Whichever reason applies to you, there are methods of achieving this goal, and they don't require little blue pills.

Introduce Kink and Spice up Your Married Life

Posted by Soiar on 11/22/2014
Do you feel that your married life (including your sex life) has slowed down and lost its pop the last few months? Is sex and foreplay slowly becoming a chore or a responsibility instead of an activity that’s pleasurable in itself? If you want to take your married and sex life into another level, then now is the best time to try out kinky sex and BDSM. 

5 Role Playing Ideas to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Posted by Soiar on 11/22/2014
You don't need to head to a swingers club or engage in S&M to spice up your sex life. With a bit of imagination, you can experience some scorching hot sex in other ways! All you need to do is step into somebody else's shoes for an evening so here are 5 cheeky role playing ideas to try out with your lover.

The Importance of Intimacy

Posted by Soiar on 11/4/2014
Sex isn’t easy for many people, and it’s a difficult topic to discuss especially in the beginning stages of a new relationship. In many cases, the sex has already been had, and talking about it feels awkward and moot. You think you know each other simply because you had sex.

Find Your Way Back to Your Lover

Posted by Soiar on 10/25/2014

There comes a point in every relationship where things become a bit stale and stagnant.  The little details of life get in the way of intimacy.  You’re so busy with work, kids, their extracurricular activities, keeping the house up and anything else that life throws at you that by the time you climb into bed the last thing on your mind is getting busy.

Why Buy Sexy Lingerie?

Posted by Soiar on 10/15/2014
As self-conscious as women are about their bodies, it’s important for them to look and feel sexy, especially to their loved ones. Women feel their absolute sexiest in sexy lingerie. Most lingerie makes them feel much more comfortable. Men also love to see their woman in attractive lingerie. Whether you and your loved one are planning a romantic evening or just hanging out around the house, great lingerie will definitely improve your evening.

Do Penis Pumps Work?

Posted by soiar on 10/14/2014

In 2006, in the trial of Donald Thompson, the former judge was accused of using a penis pump while presiding over an Oklahoma courtroom. According to the AP, jurors giggled at an exchange that began when a defense attorney referred to the penis pump as an out-of-date treatment for erectile dysfunction. "I still use those," said an expert witness. "Not you, personally?" asked the lawyer. "No," replied the witness. "I recommend those as a urologist." Wait, do penis pumps really work?

Choosing the Right Lubricant

Posted by Soiar on 10/13/2014
There are many situations that might call for additional lubrication. Some of them can be as simple as having a fun, slippery massage, and some might have to do more with the mechanics of intercourse, such as dealing with vaginal dryness, or trying out anal sex. There are different brands of lubricants on the market, which is something you should be aware of when buying them. But perhaps even more important than the maker are the ingredients of the lubricant, or more specifically - the base ingredient. And there are three common bases for lubricants - silicone, water and oil.

Coming Soon

Posted by Admin on 10/9/2014
Coming Soon


 Erotic Massage Primer
 7 Ways to Talk with your Partner about Getting Kinky
 Masturbating Toys for Women- Masturbation Made Hotter
 Beginner’s Guide to Anal Sex
 Bondage Tips for Beginners
 Everything You Need to Know About Male Condoms
 Sex Toy Materials
 Tantric Sex and The Kama Sutra: How to Truly Enhance Your Sexual Experience
 Taking Care of Sex Toys
 10 Best Herbal Supplements for Great Sex

 February 2015
 January 2015
 December 2014
 November 2014
 October 2014