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Giving your partner a sensual massage is a wonderful way for the two of you to grow even closer. And, thankfully giving an erotic massage need not be difficult as long as you follow a few guidelines and take the time to learn what makes your partner ooh and aah. 

1. Figure out what your kinks even are. Understanding not just what turns you on, but how and why it turns you on, can get your partner excited about trying something they're not used to. Plus you're going to need to be able to explain that stuff to your partner when you're blindfolded with your hands tied to the headboard. You can even write up a script to practice. "Any good sex life involves communication between the partners in terms of how one thinks about it and how they actually enjoy it," says sex therapist Dr. A. Picker.

Traditionally discussed in hushed tones and often performed by males, masturbation is now considered an ‘open topic’ for modern women. In fact, according to a commissioned study of Kinsey Institute, there’s a growing interest among American women aged 18 to 49 in masturbation. The statistic is striking since the study suggests that the act is popular in both single and married women. This only underlines the fact that masturbation is no longer a stigma as perceived in the past, and more women are more than willing to include masturbation into their lifestyle.

Although many folks are scared of even talking about anal sex, the truth is that anal sex can be a very enjoyable activity. If you are interested in exploring the thrills of going anal, make sure you know how to do so in a way that is safe, clean, and free from pain. 

If the word ‘bondage’ fills your mind’s eye with shocking images of leather masks, uncomfortable looking spikes and being locked away in a dark cellar somewhere in central Europe, you, along with almost everybody in Hollywood it seems, have probably slightly misunderstood what bondage actually is.

Making a choice among the many sex toys on offer today has more than one component to it. You need to choose the type of toy, depending on how it’s used and what it’s used for. You need to choose the size, depending on, again, what do you want it for and your personal preferences. Price and brand should be considered as well. But you should never, ever, leave the material out of the equation. It’s important, for safety reasons. And there are two ways the materials used for making sex toys influence safety: by their porousness and chemical composition.

As far as contraceptives go, there’s not a better known and more widely used one than the male condom. The proverbial rubber is often the only thing that stands between people and unwanted pregnancy, as well as nasty infections and diseases. People love condoms because, even though they are generally perceived as something that diminishes the feeling of sex, they are very effective in what they do, and they are very available and inexpensive.

The Kama Sutra is an ancient Hindu tome largely believed (especially by Westerners) to be a manual for ways to have great sex. While going hand-in-hand with Tantric Sex, Your once mind-blowing orgasms will seem like nothing compared to what Tantra can help you and your partner achieve together.

Sex toys are great fun. They are portable, they are convenient, and some of them can do things a living, breathing partner could never do. Sex toys are awesome. And for them to stay that way, you’ll need to know how to take care of them. Depending on the material they are made from, they might require special storage considerations, as well as special cleaning considerations.

The fast-paced lives we lead today and the stress levels we take on can often spell trouble in the bedroom. We are talking about waning sexual desire or low libidos, a fairly common problem nowadays. If your libido has been missing in action lately, help is at hand in the form of supplements to get you back on track.

You've set up the time, took a shower and put on a sexy beat, but all these are often not enough to stimulate sexual drive and mood. It happens, and often getting into the mood can be difficult and spoils the fun that comes with a sexual romp of couples. The reasons are varied- women often balance their time for family and work, and men are too pre-occupied with social and office requirements. A diminishing libido and loss of appetite for sex can be frustrating, but you can take appropriate actions to reverse the decline in sexual drive.

By loving and communicating with your man outside the bedroom you can improve the communication, loving, and sex within the bedroom. If your man or husband is too conservative when it comes to sex, simply follow these basic guidelines to make him wild. 

We all want to add a little bit of adventure to our sex lives, but sometimes it can be hard - all puns intended - to find a specific area of kink or deviation from the norm that you and your partner are both interested in. Role play? Sure, that's OK for a little bit of fantasy fulfillment, but if you really want to try something different in your sex lives that can not only add a little zing, but some extra pleasure during intercourse, you don't need to look any further than purchasing a good sex swing.

If you ask most men, and they are forced to give you an honest answer, one of the most sought-after sexual secrets is learning how to prolong your erection and delay ejaculation. For some guys, the reason is sexually altruistic; they want to please their partner, and maintaining their erection allows them to make love longer and provide more opportunity for their lover to reach orgasm. For others, it is simply so they can last longer and extend the time that they are feeling the pleasure of sex. Whichever reason applies to you, there are methods of achieving this goal, and they don't require little blue pills.

Do you feel that your married life (including your sex life) has slowed down and lost its pop the last few months? Is sex and foreplay slowly becoming a chore or a responsibility instead of an activity that’s pleasurable in itself? If you want to take your married and sex life into another level, then now is the best time to try out kinky sex and BDSM. 

You don't need to head to a swingers club or engage in S&M to spice up your sex life. With a bit of imagination, you can experience some scorching hot sex in other ways! All you need to do is step into somebody else's shoes for an evening so here are 5 cheeky role playing ideas to try out with your lover.

Sex isn’t easy for many people, and it’s a difficult topic to discuss especially in the beginning stages of a new relationship. In many cases, the sex has already been had, and talking about it feels awkward and moot. You think you know each other simply because you had sex.

There comes a point in every relationship where things become a bit stale and stagnant.  The little details of life get in the way of intimacy.  You’re so busy with work, kids, their extracurricular activities, keeping the house up and anything else that life throws at you that by the time you climb into bed the last thing on your mind is getting busy.

As self-conscious as women are about their bodies, it’s important for them to look and feel sexy, especially to their loved ones. Women feel their absolute sexiest in sexy lingerie. Most lingerie makes them feel much more comfortable. Men also love to see their woman in attractive lingerie. Whether you and your loved one are planning a romantic evening or just hanging out around the house, great lingerie will definitely improve your evening.

In 2006, in the trial of Donald Thompson, the former judge was accused of using a penis pump while presiding over an Oklahoma courtroom. According to the AP, jurors giggled at an exchange that began when a defense attorney referred to the penis pump as an out-of-date treatment for erectile dysfunction. "I still use those," said an expert witness. "Not you, personally?" asked the lawyer. "No," replied the witness. "I recommend those as a urologist." Wait, do penis pumps really work?

There are many situations that might call for additional lubrication. Some of them can be as simple as having a fun, slippery massage, and some might have to do more with the mechanics of intercourse, such as dealing with vaginal dryness, or trying out anal sex. There are different brands of lubricants on the market, which is something you should be aware of when buying them. But perhaps even more important than the maker are the ingredients of the lubricant, or more specifically - the base ingredient. And there are three common bases for lubricants - silicone, water and oil.

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