You don't need to head to a swingers club or engage in
S&M to spice up your sex life. With a bit of imagination, you can
experience some scorching hot sex in other ways! All you need to do is step
into somebody else's shoes for an evening so here are 5 cheeky role playing
ideas to try out with your lover.
The repairman
This works equally well with the plumber, electrician, etc.
You choose! Your partner, a jack of all trades, rings the bell. You greet this
manly figure in your new satin nightdress and let him in. You flirt a bit while
he rummages through his toolbox. Ideally, draw this part out for a while. Then,
when your repairman actually starts to 'repair' something, you lean over him,
brushing past him with the narrowest of margins... an essential step for
increasing levels of arousal.
Why's it so hot?
The surprise, unexpected encounter. It's an "I like
you, you like me, let's get on with it" kind of situation. Often, this
experience turns out to be much more exciting in role playing situations than
in real life!
The hitch hiker
You could try this out for real if you have a car and know
of a calm, isolated place where your partner can pull over by the side of the
road - we didn't tell you to do that though! Just make sure you're wearing a
skirt (it's easierto get down to business in) and it's much more discreet.
If you haven't got a car - take a taxi. Your boyfriend can
take a taxi, "spot" you on the way and ask the cab driver to stop!
Pretend you're old acquaintances that haven't seen each other in a while... you
can't go all the way but you can get things started.
Why's it so hot?
In scenario 1, it's the instantaneous sex; the promiscuity
and the fact of being in a tight, enclosed space that immediately makes it feel
hot. You could either play the role of the innocent hitchhiker whom the driver
takes a liking for, or the horny hitchhiker who can't keep her hands off the
driver!
In scenario 2, acting like you've only just met up again in
front of a stranger can add authenticity to your pretend affair. Snogging in
the back seat will give you all the build up you need to get seriously sexy
when you get home.
The teacher and the
pupil
This is one of the classics. Pretend you're in a class that
gets out of hand... you're dressed in school uniform and your man is the older,
sexy teacher. It's often very exciting because a lot of young girls start out
falling for and fantasizing about a teacher. But you can also reverse the roles
and play the strict teacher, seduced by her young student.
Why's it so hot?
You can learn pretty much anything in class: piano, maths,
French, swimming… so why not sex?! And if you work on the assumption that
"the pupil" has no sexual experience and is discovering everything
for the first time, it can be even more fun!
The prisoner and the
prison guard
Locked up in your cell and punished, you're completely under
the control of your partner, who's keeping a close eye on you. Clearly, the
guard's attracted to you. In fact, he's very attracted… Where will this
attraction and this dominating/dominated relationship lead?
Why's it so hot?
It's all about dependency. The game can go in several
directions: the prisoner seduces the guard to obtain some advantages or the
prisoner lets themselves be seduced through fear of reprisal. Choose the style
that suits you!
The luxury call girl
and the client
You're so sexy and such an expert in what you do that your
man is willing to pay a lot to screw you! For you, anything is permitted:
provocative clothing, daring techniques, dirty talk… but no kissing. Why not
arrange to find him, alone, sat at the bar of a classy hotel? Act out the
scenario then return home to seal the deal!
Why's it so hot?
You're the call girl who knows how to please, seduce, keep a
man begging... and make him pay up! Not being able to kiss you will drive your
lover mad with desire.