If you ask most men, and they are forced to give you an honest answer,
one of the most sought-after sexual secrets is learning how to prolong
your erection and delay ejaculation. For some guys, the reason is
sexually altruistic; they want to please their partner, and maintaining
their erection allows them to make love longer and provide more
opportunity for their lover to reach orgasm. For others, it is simply so
they can last longer and extend the time that they are feeling the
pleasure of sex. Whichever reason applies to you, there are methods of
achieving this goal, and they don't require little blue pills.
Method 1: Using a Cock Ring
Go
to any website that sells sex toys and sex aids, and you're likely to
find a section containing a wide variety of
cock rings. Cock rings have
been around for a very long time, possibly even pre-dating the ancient
Roman Empires. They come in a range of different shapes and sizes, but
they all provide one distinct service. They slip around the base of the
penis shaft, sometimes even around the balls, and they restrict blood
flow, allowing you to maintain your erection, and providing an even more
intense ejaculation when you finally remove the ring when you're
finally ready to come.
Method 2: Pulling Down on the Balls
When
your body is ready to ejaculate, the natural physiological response is
for your balls to tense up and pull closer to the base. It is a basic
muscular response, and as such, it can be manipulated. When you feel
your balls starting to pull up in anticipation of the ejaculation,
simply wrap your hand arounf the base and gently tug downward on the
balls until the sensation and need to ejaculate passes. You can even
have your lover do this for you. If using this method, it pays to
experiment a little bit first, because the balls are an extremely
sensitive area, and tugging too hard can be more than a little bit
painful.
Method 3: Squeezing the Head
This method can be
achieved by you performing it on yourself, or by having your partner
perform it on you. If the ball-tugging method proves too painful, this
method achieves the same basic result. When you feel yourself nearing
orgasm, wrap your thumb and forefinger in a circle just beneath the head
of your penis. Once you have the shaft entirely encircled, gently
squeeze until the need for ejaculation passes.
Sex is all about
the pleasure, and the longer you can enjoy that pleasure, the better
that sex can be. By experimenting on different ways to prolong that
pleasure, you and your partner can maximize the sensations and open up
all sorts of new ways of appreciating each other in bed.